Honestly since I got married
, I was very lucky to have a wife who is concerned with the development of our
children . We remind each other greeting that comes out of our mouths and our
attitudes and behaviors that are " dangerous " for our children . We
are well aware of the child does not need to be taught anything through
communication , just look at it then it has been studied and recorded in his
brain . We are maintaining it .
Like the above title
parenting is character education . For us older folks , what character we want
to instill in our children ? Give an example of it in the attitudes and actions
as well as words . Then the child will easily imitate and store it in his
subconscious memory and will be issued back when " no trigger " . The
point ? When we give an example of respect and affection for our spouses , our
children get married one day when he would imitate the behavior of his parents
to the spouse .
Now this is very true once
aphorism " the fruit does not fall far from the tree " and it's how I
feel right now a lot of my clients who feel that life is the result of a "
copy " of his parents . If her parents give good effect does not matter ,
but if the house a mess like his parents then this is a disaster . Why is this
happening ? Well , I guess you already know the answer right?
Be a role model for our
beloved baby , the first and initially the child will always learn from its
immediate environment , namely the elderly . They absorb information better
than their five senses . Not just the words but the attitude of the parents and
their parents' behavior will absorb too , you do not even realize.
If our parents , want to
know how much value you as a parent to educate the child , there is an easy way
to know. The first report cards of our children at school ( play group or
kindergarten ) , it is our own report cards parents , not the child . You can
draw from these results , how the quality of the " product " ( read :
kids ) you . Well that is 3-5 years old report cards when you start a family
and educate children . But if you know the end result look at your child's life
when he has been in the real life . Look at the interaction , how to talk and
behave , and if we parents are more observant and wise look at finances. The
better your child's financial condition is directly proportional to the
character of the child you ( kosher of course ) .