This is an important mistake
because children learn from parents a few things. but it turns out that
contrary to what has been taught. This action adversely affect the child's
mental and behavioral. Allah Azza Wa Jalla denounce these actions with his
words:
"O ye who believe why
do not you say what you do? It is most hateful in the sight of Allah that you
say what you did not do" (SurahAshShaff :2-3).
How children learn honesty if he knew his
parents lied? How children learn the nature of the trust while he saw his
father cheat? How children learn good morals when people poke around, say ugly
and depraved?
Both parents can not agree on a
certain way in a child's education. Sometimes perform certain acts in the
presence of both parents. but as a result of the mother being praised and
encouraged his father warned and threatened. Children eventually become confused
which is right or wrong in between. With a limited sense, he has not been able
to distinguish between right and wrong so that it would result in the child
being indecisive and all matters not clear to him.
While, if both parents have
the same way and no different shows, there will be confusion.
Television, newspaper media have great
influence in the child's behavior and actions and most dangerous media is
television. Almost no home that does not have a television. Although the
pervasive influence on children and adult, knowledgeable people and limited
knowledge, a researcher said: "The children in general, and most adults,
tend to accept without question all the information shown in the film and looks
realistic. they can remember the material better way ... mind then they swallow
the lower value.
Many educators are not concerned that their
children watch television addiction. This however is very influential on the
characters and their properties, called the event was filled with thoughts of
vile child obtained through events that aired children. Many cartoons which
contains the story of love and romance ... among dogs or other animals. Do you
not see how