rewards, the rewards of the relationship itself, or may be extrinsic rewards, which serves as a tool for other compensation and not a reward for the relationship itself. So in general human happiness and suffering are determined by the behavior of others. Just as the human actions that bring pleasure on the one hand and lack of pleasure on the other. Further said Soerjono Soekamto (1997) that social interaction would not be possible if not satisfy two conditions, namely: (1) The existence of social contact. With the current technological developments can be done through social contacts, mail, radio telephone and so on. (2) The existence of communication. Communicating is a process that is done every day. But communication is not an easy thing. As an example of misunderstanding is the result of ineffective communication and frequent. Communicating with the elderly is even harder. This is due to advanced age has a special characteristic in the development of age. There are two main sources that cause difficulty communicating with the elderly, which causes physical and psychological causes. Physical cause, hearing elderly be reduced so that the elderly often do not listen to what was being said. Psychologically, the elderly find it starts to lose power, so that it becomes a more sensitive, easily offended so often lead to misunderstanding. Simulations are simultif / elderly to stimulate thinking, and thinking skills elderly to remain active and purposeful.